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Overcoming doubt: Pursuing your goals.

  • patylskhanamirian
  • Apr 28, 2024
  • 2 min read

In life, we often face moments of indecision, particularly when contemplating significant changes. It's a familiar struggle — the desire to spread our wings and explore new horizons we've been dreaming of for months, if not years. We yearn for independence from the constraints of our current circumstances and seek to escape the negativity and discouragement that may surround us.


It can be particularly challenging when those closest to us are the ones holding us back, instead of offering support. I write this from personal experience, to share why it's crucial to let go of pettiness and to fully embrace the pursuit of our dreams.


First and foremost, it's essential to understand that everyone has a purpose in life. Your goals are uniquely yours, and it's only you who can work towards them, manage them, and ultimately succeed in them. Your purpose is part of the cycle of life, and it's not to be underestimated or compromised for the sake of others' opinions.


Trusting your gut feeling is paramount.

Gut instincts rarely lead us astray; they guide us towards our goals and help us make decisions that align with our aspirations. Likewise, criticism should be embraced, as it often provides valuable insights that can refine our purpose and lead us towards excellence.

Jealousy, as uncomfortable as it may be, often stems from a lack of fulfillment in one's own life. Understanding this can help us empathize with those who criticize or discourage us, without allowing their negativity to derail us from our path.


Comparing ourselves to successful individuals can be enlightening, serving as a beacon to guide us towards our own success. Surrounding ourselves with positive energy is crucial.

If our environment is pulling us down, seeking alternative spaces where we can focus, meet new people, and feel inspired can be immensely beneficial.

Family support is undoubtedly valuable, but if it's lacking, we must remember that friends can become our chosen family. It's essential to shine and make an impact, leaving behind a legacy that reflects our efforts and aspirations.


Time is of the essence.

Procrastination only delays our progress, so it's vital to start taking action towards our goals immediately.


In my own journey, I've learned that the reactions of those closest to us can significantly impact our pursuit of long-held dreams.

I allowed discouragement and negativity to affect me for far too long, but I've since learned to pursue my goals relentlessly.

No one truly fails, because the act of daring greatly and putting ourselves out there is a remarkable achievement in itself

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